Tuesday, November 10, 2009

How do you treat your friend?

One of the main things to do is break the friendship out of it's comfort zone. If you meet someone that you want to know better, invite them out for lunch, movie, coffee, etc, something outside of the activity that you normally know this person through. Another thing that doesn't hurt is to attend to that person's high points or low points in their life.
some points to be noted:
  • You are not the only person in that friend's life. They have other friends too. If one day, you call your friend to ask him to go out with you, and she/he said, they can't. Don't get upset, they have other people to take care of. Is best to try to meet your friend's friends and get to know them , this way you and your friend will have a great time together.
  • If your friend is sick and you have time to be there for them, do it. You may not get the same respond from that friend if you are sick, but I am pretty sure that another friend of yours will be there for you. That's life, you give and you get, never from the same person you helped, but from others. Be there for your friend. Never said anything bad about your friend, to your friends, you never know if one day your friends meet your friend and they said, "Oh this is the person you told me about." Please, lets try to be friendly and sincere.
  • Don't just remember your friends when you see them in the streets. Do you know how to keep up with your friend, if you don't know, whatis going on with them. How can you be friends. Friends get married, have children, get sick, get divorce, become professionals. Don't you want to be part of your friend's life. Be part of his/her life, they will be part of yours. Having a friend is having the opportunity to share your dreams with someone special.
  • Keep up with your friend, by e-mail, call them on their birthday, mother's day, Friendship day, send pictures of you and your family. Write a letter if they are very far from you. Plan trips together, when you travel as a group you can save lots of money. let your children spend time with your friend's children. Have a picnic, share your family and blessings.
  • There are many advantages to have a close friend. As per example you get to be a bridesmaid, you get to attend many birthdays, you get to have fun with your friend and their family. If you are alone in the Nepal, your friends can become your family. But remember treat people they way you want to be treated.

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